Sam’s Journey : Chapter 1

Meeting old friends is always a nice feeling. You cherish the memories of nice time spend together. This was the exact feeling I had when I met my old friend Sam after a gap of almost over 3 years. We enjoyed together the memories and it was like the old days were back again and didn’t feel the time going faster the us. We sat together and picked it up from where we had left…In fact we got more close…That’s the beauty of friendship…Its timeless…

But this one incident which Sam narrated which stayed with me for the whole night and was indeed an experience to be shared. It was about a friend … an angel who changed his life completely. This is the narration of this guy who was there with him throughout his stint in the earlier company. He also happened to join the company the same day as him and also he eventually happened to serve his last day in the organization same as his.

Chapter 1:

Three years back Sam got this new job and was very really excited about it. This was the time when I saw him last before now. It was his first stint in a truly complete MNC. It was the date of joining and with all the excitement of working in a new environment, a new sector all together was really evident in his body language. So he finally enters the main gate of the campus and reach the reception area to inquire about his next plan of action and also to meet his appointed HR. He was told by the receptionist to wait for about 10 minutes and will then be escorted by his HR who is on her way. He sat in a couch nearby and that is the first time he saw this guy for the first time.

So now he was sitting next to this guy. There were newspapers kept in front of them and the other guy was reading one and Sam also picked another one kept there. As the time elapsed Sam realized the 10 minutes as advised earlier by the receptionist has become 30 now and there is no sight of the HR anywhere. He again went to check if there is any further delay and was told that the HR had just informed that she will take 10 more minutes and will reach here soon to get both of them. That was when he got to know the other guy was also joining today and we both were to be working in same team. Realizing this he went back now with a smile on his face to greet him. Seeing him coming back the other guy knew he was coming to meet him and he also smiled back even before they actually said a word to each other. That moment Sam felt some kind of positive vibe just passed through him. He greeted him and introduced him and asked for his name and the reply came, “My name is Daniel”. They got connected at that very movement but they didn’t knew at that moment that it was going to be a remarkable journey of theirs together in the organization, where we both were very happy to have been selected.

Meanwhile as they were getting to know each other the HR came and took them inside the awesome and huge campus, which was the biggest which they had seen in their life. It had more that 55 high rise buildings with almost more than 35000 people working there. They were then taken to the induction hall were there were few others who had joined the same day sitting. They also joined them and the induction started and their remarkable and memorable journey stated along with the same.

Sam and Danny (that is what Sam called him) got together very well. Both of them seemed to have same kind of interests which eventually got them together and crafted this remarkable journey.

After the induction session was over both of them were taken to their team and HR introduced them to the team lead who took over them from the HR and they were officially taken into the company. The journey hence continued and to their luck both of them were given to join the same team working in the project which made both of them very happy as they now have each other at least in this new world, though they knew eventually will make many new friends there.

From then on to about few days being new they were supposed to look at all the people working there and explore the campus as it would take time for all the approval of them working along with their credentials to come. Sam didn’t know what to do as each day he was supposed to scan the same 20 odd faces, when they come and when they go. What they do and what they do not do. It was kind of seriously frustrating times, but he couldn’t complain as he knew this was what everyone did and had to do when you join new.

But then he realized Danny is happy and is enjoying what they were doing. He was surprised and asked Danny, dude how are you happy man. After hearing this Danny was kind of cynical and replied, what do you mean. Sam understood how foolish he sounded and explained him his plight and the source of the question. Danny understood and then explain to him what he did which actually shocked Sam. Danny said he was doing the same thing as him but he tried to meet at least one person new every hour in the office personally. This way now he knows almost everyone in the office and hence every time he sees someone he smiles at them and as they too happen to know him now the smile always comes back and this way he is always smiling and is happy.

Sam was really astonished at Danny’s reply. Man he did the same thing as me of scanning people but the big difference was that he is making others smile and eventually is happy. How in my wildest dream could I have not thought of the same? Sam was indeed inspired by him that day and felt like full respect for his thinking and all credit to Danny for the same. Sam too decided to do the same and with Danny’s help he met almost all the people working in the team that day itself and boy it was a real transformation of his coming days in the organization. He could feel the difference as to how happy his days were going and how the interactions and conversations with people have changed the way he thought about everything. “Sometimes, the simple things are more fun and meaningful than all the banquets in the world”.

Someone had rightly said,

“A nice warm shower, a cup of tea, and a caring ear may be all you need to warm your heart.”

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Yesterday I had been sitting in my office canteen for the last half an hour taking sip of a nice coffee; I hardly had any wish to go back to work and was waiting for the cab to arrive.

There I saw a girl sitting in the other table near me. She was trying to concentrate on the book in her hand.

‘Hey, can I join you?’ A guy asked her, who just came in.

Suddenly the voice startled her and she looked up, with her eyebrows scrunched together.

She nodded silently; he was standing across the table, holding a plate in his hands. The broad smile on his face seems to have made her even more agitated.

It seemed all she wanted was some alone time, She seemed to muttered curses under her breath and decided to leave the table.

The other guy sat down across her and smiled; which she returned with a forced decent smile and was about to get up when he exclaimed, ’50 Ways to be Happy!!!’ , then laughed out loud.

‘What?’ She frowned.

After checking his laughter, he said, ‘it’s the title of your book…’, and took a big bite of his sandwich.

‘What’s so funny?’ Exclaimed with anger welling up inside her.

‘What’s this book about?’ He asked ignoring her question.

‘It tells you how to be happy…’ She shrugged her shoulders.

‘And you still seem unhappy, grumpy, irritated…’ He replied, with a smirk crossing his lips.

She was stupefied by his remark, still she tried to defend herself but he interrupted.

‘You know what!!…to me right now happiness is this sandwich…yummy…you must try’, he grinned and then was lost in his definition of happiness.

The girl silently got up and disappeared.

All the Gods, all the Heavens, all the Hells are within you…

All the Gods, all the Heavens, all the Hells are within you…

A soldier is the pride of his nation. He defends the honor of his motherland with his life and blood. He has to rise above his own self to defend his nation. His profession brings out the best qualities in him like chivalry, discipline, team sprite, loyalty and steadfastness. His example serves as a beacon light to others who are tame and cowardly. His life is a source of inspiration to the youth of the nation. He has no politics in his makeup. He serves the nation to the best of his ability.

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Last week saw this picture in the news and it said a 22-year-old combat photographer captured the fatal moment during a live-fire training exercise. A mortar tube had accidentally exploded killing all the three of them. It really made us think indeed how noble is the life of a soldier.

The life of soldier is very tough and full of discipline. He has to be mentally and physically alert and keep his body in fine shape for any battles that may come up. His performance in the theaters of war has been heroic and daring. He is the finest specimen of humanity who is prepared to given the supreme sacrifice of his life for the lives of his fellow countrymen. He has to brave the  tyrannies of nature and in thunder, lightning or rain, extreme hot or cold, in deserts, mountain or seas, day and night fight continuously for the know of his nation. He has to sacrifice his family life, be away from his children, only to the save the life of other children.

Once an American soldier in the mist of a fierce battle in Syria said to his fellow soldier what would my son say about me? “He died in a place he didn’t need to be, in a battle over something he doesn’t understand, in a country that meant nothing to him.”

How do you become a soldier. I never knew or thought of the prospect of becoming a soldier to serve my country. Many of us are not guided with this opportunity either because our society fear of losing us. But hats off to the parents and family of those young who sent their beloved away to serve the country and protect its people. But many times we do not understand them and will not leave a stone upturned in criticizing their intentions. Once a soldier said, when I go home people ask me, “Hey dude, why do you do it man? ” You know what I’ll say? I won’t say a goddamn word. Why? They won’t understand. They won’t understand why we do it. They won’t understand that it’s about the men next to you, and that’s it. That’s all it is.

Someone rightly said that for a soldier, all the Gods, all the Heavens, all the Hells are within him.

Once a father said to his son, “You love playing with that. You love playing with all your stuffed animals. You love your mommy, your daddy, your nature pajamas. You love everything, don’t ya? Yeah. But you know what, buddy? As you get older… some of the things that you love might not seem so special anymore, you know? Like your Jack-in-a-Box. Maybe you’ll realize it’s just a piece of tin and a stuffed animal, but the older you get, the fewer things you really love, and by the time you get to my age, maybe it’s only one or two things. That’s life.

The Promise Was Mine and I Have To Keep It.

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Don’t know why, but have always believed and felt personally that hospitals are the best place to meditate on oneself. It really helps you know yourself, evaluate onto the past and the present, the gifts and good we have with us.

Once a physician friend narrated an incident. It was a normal day as usual in the hospital and she was attending to the OPD patients. As she was examining a patient who was there as per appointment, a man dashed into the room running towards her. At first she got shocked but seeing the hospital attendants coming in behind the man made her at ease.

Man: {Begging} Doctor please help to examine me now as I have to leave now.

Doctor: We cannot do it. Kindly wait till your appointed time arrives. We have other patients also waiting outside.

Man: Doc I know I came out of turn, but kindly examine me now so that I can leave home. My sick wife is waiting there and I had promised her that I would be back for breakfast.

Doctor: What happened to your wife.

Man: She is suffering from Alzheimer.

Doctor: {Pausing for a moment} … Sorry to know about it. But if she is suffering from Alzheimer’s disease, it is most likely that she will remember the promise you made.

Man: {Smiling} The Promise Was Mine and I Have To Keep It.

In today’s ever demanding world where can we find the same. Many times we don’t even keep up with the promises we make to ourselves, let aside the ones we make to others.

​A fifth-Grade Classroom

Teacher: An abstract noun is a type of noun that refers to something with which a person cannot physically interact. Some examples of abstract nouns are love, hate, beauty, truth, dream, bravery. Can you guys name some other examples?

Emma : My parents?

The teacher stood speechless, stunned by the eight-year-old orphan’s response.

My Creator’s Life

Once an old friend of mine told me …

At times, when we look at the sad part of our life, all the broken and shattered pieces which lie scattered in our heart and we break down and give up and just want to end our life.

With all those lonely walks and secrets which cannot even be shared with the walls of our rooms. With no hope to get up the next day.

With all the broken trusts we have had because of trusting people.We try to run and hide to a place where no one can see us like a crab which hides inside the seashore holes when the tides come. And we just want to give up and close down.

But when I think back and try to recollect what made me stand up again? What gave me the strength to get up and face the world? What made me realize that my story is not yet over?

Its that person who brought me to this world. A person who saw me in all those broken times. A person who came and sat with me. He even hugged me tightly when there was a storm around me. He never let me stay in those crab holes forever. He brought me out and he stopped those tides.

He did not judge me for all that has happened in my life. He never gave up on me. He did not accuse me of leaving him and walking away in my own path. He held me close. He accepted me the way I am. He loves me for everything I am.

He brought me back to the green pastures and let me lay down near the quiet waters.

That’s why I can’t give up on my life. Because more than mine, this is his life. My creator’s life. More than my sad broken life. This is a life with purpose and that purpose is to live with him.

Success Redefined : Innovation & Diversification

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I met this person sometime back during my travel back home. Travel always teaches us many things, we just have to keep our eyes and ears open to embrace it. It was a tiring day at office and the excitement of going back home was pumping the energy. I was given a seat next to a simple looking aged person and at first instance thought it would be a boring journey but eventually became one of the most memorable one. After a few casual chat I got to know he was a senior guy in a MNC and was managing the ASPAC region operations. It was really cool to be sitting next to him and every word which came out of his mouth was awesomely simple but was dynamic in itself. But one thing which touched me over all was his reply to my questions, what’s your mantra to be a successful?.

At first he smiled and then after a few moments  said, to be successful in any field you need to love what you do and follow three basic principles which everyone knows and will tell you. Hard work, Knowledge & Patience is the basic ones without which nobody ain’t going anywhere. But in today’s world just the basic is not enough. You need to add the “tadka” (tempering) to it and that is what I would like to share with you. It’s my personal favorite and it did help me.

“Innovation & Diversification”

That’s it he didn’t say anything else. Just a smile to finish the things off the same way he started it. I kept it to myself the night but the next day discussed the same with my friend. We brainstormed on it and realized yes …

This though is not something new. This is what Steve Jobs did when he was in Apple … Mac … NeXT … Apple.

If you are the one who is hardworking and constantly gaining on your knowledge database and waiting patiently for success to catch hold of her, but she ain’t coming anywhere near. Then this was for you buddy. Innovate & Diversify !!!

Hope it helps…Cheers.